My Adult Views

''I love swinging it is the most intimate and exciting form of a non-monogamous sexual activity, treated much like any other social activity, that can be experienced as a couple." Explained Davina to her sister Mary who was opposed to such activity. She couldn't believe Davina could be so laid back about her sexual lif with various partners whilst being married with two children. Davina patted Mary's shoulder to calm her down as she knew she was about to hear another lecture of her about not being loyal being a bit of a slapper. ''Mary, David knows about this i mean we do go to these conventions together you know and i mean it keeps the fire burning in our relationship.'' ''I know that is what is more disturbing about the whole thing.'' Mary said with disgust as she drank her beer. The two sisters held a ladies night with several of their friends. Joyce, Clara and Zoe were all part of the swingers club and that is where Davina had met them and became such good friends. ''Yea i mean look at us now we are such a strong group of friends we always will be and that is another great thing of joining this club.'' Joyce explained to Mary. However Mary was having none of it, ''Look i agree you guys are great and that is probably the only decent thing out of the whole swinging thing or whatever you call it. I on the other hand like to be dating one guy and one guy only and have sex with one guy only.'' Reinforced Mary to the others. They continued to banter about what was better swinging or having a monogamous relationship. Davina decided to make it more fun ''Right girls lets see whose argument is better lets form some teams, It will be Joyce me and Clare and Mary and Zoe.'' Zoe winced ''Oh man why do i have to be on the losing side.'' ''Hey hey hey who says we will be losing, stick with your moral side and then maybe just maybe we will win after all.'' Mary said in confidence. All the girls started to laugh. Joyce stated her argument first ''You see the aroma that swinging brings is very sexual you get this urgency and excitement and well lets face it you get more aggressive and sexual when there's more people banging you.'' Mary started to blush the swingers were so brazen they had so much confidence it was just amazing. The rest of the girls found this funny and agreed with Joyce. Mary decided it was her turn, ''Right well that may be OK for a one off but when you get with someone and you feel their touch and you know its just right you wouldn't want to be with anyone else and besides if my man can perform just right in bed i wouldn't need to wander off anywhere else.'' She said this and glared at Davina. The girls all choked in laughter as they were drinking. ''Oh my gosh, in a way she has a point.'' Zoe agreed reluctantly. Davina smirked. ''I can assure you David performs perfectly fine thanks in fact he has got me so excited we even did it on the coffee table.'' Mary dived away from the table in disgust. ''Oh to much information big sis way too much.''

After several hours of debating and getting drunk Mary was beginning to understand that swinging didn't have to be with various partners it could be with just a couple but done in a place where all other people were engaged in such activity. She didn't understand what all the fuss was about as she would be embarrassed exposing her bits to people. However listening to several arguments she did understand the sexual desire that men and women felt. She wouldn't be so negative next time.